The Natural Lifestyles Euro Tour 2011 

I cannot recommend the TNL Eurotour more even if they paid me.

I found it to be a high-intensity psychological reprogamming experience.

I learned a number of practical skills incl but definitely not limited to:
- preventing anxiety from ruinning my interactions
- a solid framework for conversation
- projecting intent
- verbal game for text & phone
- being able to do near anything in a social situation without being awkward
- practicing abundance in my interactions
- escalation techniques
- being direct and owning my desire

However, the greatest benefit came not from instruction on how to behave towards
beautiful women but rather from the help I received in discovering what I already had to offer.

I honestly expected that these "inner game" gurus were going to try to teach me
confidence with a series of presentations and a handbook.

What they did instead - through a carefully devised experiential programme - was to
unwrap the layers of bullshit (such as limiting beliefs, negative self-perception &
useless framing) and uncover a dude who deserves beautiful & interesting women and
who is comfortable going out to meet them and bring them into his life.

If you are looking to learn a few magic tricks and assumptive openers that you can use
to trick women into bed then this is not going to be for you.

If instead you are not exclusively concerned with going to Eastern Europe
to have sex with some of the most gorgeous girls on this planet, which will happen - or
at least it did for pretty much everyone on my tour ;-), but you are also interested in
- improving your masculinity in all areas of your life
- deflating your ego while super-charging your self-worth
- changing beyond what you thought was possible
- having some serious fun with a group of like-minded guys
then you definitely need to do this.

I got a lot more than expected from Eurotour. It was a life changing experience for me
that led me to have a lot of breakthroughs. In the beginning, I was very hesitant to sign up for this program because of the review I read on this website about “instructors being more interested in approaching girls themselves than to watch students grow”. I have taken other companies’ workshops in the past, and it was a legitimate concern for me that instructors would not be teaching as much as they advertised. I figured that I would at least start a good habit by going out and approaching women every day even if I did not end up learning as much as they advertised.

I soon realized that it is not the case after the first day into the tour – my initial concerns were all misguided (there are set plans and schedule of what we will be learning and doing every day). After meeting my fellow students, I know that I am with a group of like-minded people that are trying to make changes in their lives.

In term of the coaches, James was not kidding about this being a powerhouse team. I would say that each one of them has high integrity and really enjoys making changes in
people’s lives for the better. Each one offers difference strengths and perspectives as well. The coaches often stay after to help out students with questions and clarifications. They are knowledgeable and would not withhold nor bullshit anything. I was provided answers and clarifications for anything I asked. The only thing that I would say was that there was not enough time since I was growing and developing at a fast pace.

For me, I did not attend the tour with a lot of prior experiences (probably did ~20 cold approaches and never been in a relationship) – although I have taken other companies bootcamps before. The reason was that after taking other companies’ workshops/bootcamps, I still did not go out and approach women by myself afterward. After the Eurotour, I am now pushing myself to continue to go out and approach women for myself (I am writing this a month after the Eurotour). I think the reason that the Eurotour is different was because of these factors:

1. The Eurotour was 13 days long – this helped me to get into the habit of approaching
women
2. The quality of the coaches and their willingness to teach – they all know what they are talking about and have something different to offer
3. Inner game – this is a big one for me. It allows me to have a good “state-control” and to live a life that is aligning with my values.
4. The group of students – It is good to know that there is always a group of motivated friends that I can relate to.

Below are the general overviews of the coaches (in alphabetical order):

James Marshall – He was what I expected from watching his youtube videos. He is very knowledgeable and very good at what he does – during our 1 on 1 session; he was able to give me effective pointers that solidified my approaches immediately.

Jess Daly – Amazing fashion coach. She picked out fashionable outfits for me based on my personality and the way I dressed. I get complimented on the things I wear now and it makes the approaching easier.

Liam McRae – He provides good feedbacks based on the student’s levels. Also provided ways and challenge students to sexually escalate at a faster pace. He and Tony helped out students a lot with their text game.

Sasha Daygame – Craziest social freedom exercises that I’ve ever done. Really pushes what I believe was possible and developed the fundamental techniques of my approaches.

Shae Matthews – Learned really amazing inner-game techniques from him that helped me to be able to control my state. I also understand and see myself differently after his sessions.

Tony Solo – He always go above and beyond in teaching and helping out students. He is always joyful and graceful and his actions show that. I can’t think of an instance where he did not stay after to answer questions and provide clarifications.

For me, the Eurotour is an all-in-one package that provides a holistic way of developing and transforming students. They cover everything from being able to transform how students understand themselves internally to techniques (based on principles) that can were applied immediately during in-fields afterwards. Those things get reinforced during daily in-fields. My experience was that most other companies’ bootcamps/workshops are mainly focused on techniques and "maybe" some principles.

Some could say that being good with women should be natural and that people should
not have to spend money learning this stuff. While this could be true; but for me, I was never that guy. If I had to go and figure all these out for myself, I would most likely never had the confidence and direction to go about doing so (or probably get stuck reading all the e-books and watching youtube videos out there). I see the Eurotour as an investment on myself (sort of like college). Learning how good with women are skillsets that can be taught and developed - it is okay for me to seek help.

The Eurotour was not cheap for me (I used the money originally saved to move out of
my home to pay for this), but for me the decision came down to: 1) I move out of my home but cannot approach any girl that I am interested in; or 2) Stay at home for a longer period of time but can approach girls that I am attracted to.

I am not saying that I became superman with women immediately after the Eurotour.
Like anything in life – it is what I make of it. But, I am now confident that I can hold my grounds and approach women that I am really attracted to (at a minimum).

-Kay

Today I'm going to talk about the Eurotour 2012 and how it changed my life. So just sit back and enjoy reading. And bare with my since English is not my native language.
Before the tour I was only able to meet girls only if friends introduced them too me, since I had a really huge Approach Anxiety based on my teenage years issues. I was a really fat motherfucker and though I have a athletic figure now I had these demons which didn't allow me to just go up to women and talk to them at all. Off course I was skeptical and thought to myself is it worth it to invest money and time in a seduction course. And is it going really to help me out ones and for all. But I said screw that I'm going to change this part of my life. After screening all the offers around the internet I realized that if I want to invest money and time I should come to the best. And believe me that The Naturals+ Sasha are the best.

The tour started in Prague and the first time I entered the room to meet the other guys I felt this warm energy all over the place. This guys are not just my fellow students and coaches but they are my brothers since we are about to share such great experience together. After relaxing on the first night and getting to know the guys for a little bit we started off with some meditation which helped us to get out of our heads to our bodies on the next day. And afterwards Sasha took us on his awesome social freedom exercises He literally destroyed my Approach Anxiety in about 4 hours. It was gone and I felt on top of the world. We just had a blast. You feel so much happier then you just stop carrying. At night the guys took us to hit the clubs and meeting some girls. I have to say on the entire trip you will never feel left behind the guys are always watching out for you and try to support you as much as you need. On the last day girls start to recognize me on the main square where we did Daygame so it was time to move on to Bratislava.
In Bratislava I had my first down side but also my first really upside of the trip. Though you can consider me as being a social guy I never have been really a club guy so projecting this vibe I got really bad responses from the people I talked too. But on the next day I just had a really amazing feeling .You have to start to love making mistakes. The only way you are going to become really good at this is by making mistakes. The coaches pointed out some mistakes and how I can overcome my limiting beliefs regarding the whole night game thing. And it worked quite well because on the next night out I met a really cute Kindergarten teacher. Funny part of this story have been that after making out with her and biting her neck she stopped and said ,, wait a minute what was your name again?" :). Also she said to me that she is usally don't do this because she is a good girl. But I just said it's ok it's saturday weekends didn't count. Also when I tried her to get back to my place she asked where are we going? And I just said to church and gave her my address. Thanks to my wing for saying he is a preacher. And also thank you Liam Rapid Escalation works.
Besides that the best thing about Bratislava and Prague have been that James brought some female models so we can work on our conversation skills, projecting intent and many things more that improved our game. By the end of everyday you are thinking to yourself that this day was awesome and the other day cannot be better. But yes it can!
After Bratislava we traveled to Budapest. Which I hit rock bottom again because I thought yeah I'm the king of the world I got laid so I know everything but in Budapest we hit Daygame really hard and at the beginning no girl stopped for me. But after getting on the mice with James and the other guys my game improved rapidly. You can see how each of them works and they are showing you a style which is congruent with your personality. In my case Sashas way of approaching girls suits the most for me. They pointed out my sticking points and improved so much that I was able to set up a date with this incredible Hungarian dancer after only talking 30 seconds to her. We catched up later at the bar but she brought her friend and I went on my first ,,Big Brother is watching you " date ever. Don't be cheap! I had no credit left on my phone so I didn't text her only Liam said to me later ;what you didn't text her but she is so hot. Ok I will tell her to meet you in 10 minutes. And she came with her friend. Still she is just a really amazing person and after 5 minutes we had this sexual tension and really deep connection going on. If it wasn't for her friend we definitely would end up sleeping together because she asked me after 5 minutes where I live and how far away it is? This reminds me about the good thing of the bus rides between the trips. Each guy, coaches and students shared his story and so did I and the coaches give you an inside how to handle this kind of situation next time.

Arriving in Belgrad or how I called it the heaven on earth. Imagine a place with so many hot women that you don't know who to approach first. I was so grateful that I felt on my knees on the main square and screamed thank you James and thank you Jesus ( Which is funny because I'm Jewish). It was the best place to end such an amazing journey. Now having the skills I went out for the first daygame session and got 6 numbers out of 6 approaches. I opened a girl who was like my friend said an 11 of a scale to 10 and got her number after 30 seconds. I just had a blast. From now on the tour was not only about getting good with women but also just enjoying life in general and be proud of who I'm. Me and a fellow student met this two incredible girls who took us with them and we had this awesome night of Gypsy music great food and some pretty crazy dance moves. Off course we still had some workshops to cover the last aspects to help us out with our new skills. But since Belgrad my goal switched completely and it is not anymore about picking up women but just letting go of the outcome and enjoy the moment. No scripts no routines just being myself and this works 1000 times better. After getting this mind set down when I did my first beach approach ever and number closed a professional Volleyball player Liam just said to me ,, Hey if we would film this everybody would think you are a coach". Not bad for someone who had bad AA a few days ago, :). Also I came up with some really funny approaches like "Banarama" and "I ran out of toilet paper" for Night game. And " The guy with glasses" and "The guy who repeats everything the other guy says" for Daygame. Hopefully Mr Johnny Cooper will put some videos of them online since he number closed a girl why I was repeating everything he said, :)

So to sum it up. If you want to get this part of the life handle ones and for all or you just sick of using routines and you think you have to put up a great show to women to like you , you better should get your arse on the Eurotour. I want to thank the coaches and my fellow students for this life changing trip. I would never be the person who I'm today without you guys. I love you in a none Pufta way.
Now I'm back in Germany and I want to kill myself because no hot women are around anymore. But the good news is that the few hot women are loving The Natural Game. Set up a date with a model and a dancer for next week. Also it is really funny to eye fuck a girl while her boyfriend is standing close to her and see how she is reacting. Thank you guys again for this awesome skills that no one elses teaches on this planet.
So stop reading books and dreaming about the life you want to have. Instead do something about it and sign up for the Eurotour. Life is so much easier when you see the light. Trust me on what.
If you have any questions about the Eurotour and you want to talk to a student about it. Go ahead and write me an email at: [email protected] and I will come back to you when I'm not out approaching hot girls, :).

Eurotour is the single best investment a man can make in himself.

It is essentially a primer on the possibilities of lifestyle. Lifestyle, as in not "the lifestyle" but possibilities, choice and freedom in your life. Living how you want. It touches on a wide variety of areas of seduction, shedding internal bullshit, body and awareness work, style, very heavy infield experience and most importantly, change. It is the most comprehensive workshop I have ever been to and can think of, in and outside of the community. This includes other self development, motivation, technology and career oriented workshops/seminars. My experience has shown me that many others focus solely on one item and act as if that is the key, while Eurotour gives you key after key and from that experience, it allows you to find your own.

Here's what you can expect:
3 days in Prague
Travel Day - Prague to Budapest
4 days in Budapest
Travel Day - Budapest to Belgrade
3 days in Belgrade

Rough Daily Schedule:
Morning are usually bodywork and meditation then debrief or a class.
Afternoon to late afternoon/early evening is dedicated to social freedom for the first few days, then day game.
Early evening is a large break. This is a great time to explore the city, apply what you learned that day or decompress.
Late evenings are night game. Although is not every single night, it is more than enough.

The Eurotour group is very small. 10 students and 5 core coaches. We also had a guest coach. This lends itself to high availability, detailed feedback and multiplied insight. During the tour, you will stay in apartments in the center of the cities, in a group of 2-4. Something to keep in mind is that the schedule is highly flexible depending on the needs of the group. Classes are sprinkled throughout, at various times, and are presented progressively, on essential topics as social fear, approaching, winging, night game, intent, conversation, presence, texting, dates, dancing, etc. You will also have the chance to get styled by Jess Daly, which I highly recommend as I have consistently gotten compliments and interest based solely on style while on tour and since I've been back. Getting styled is out of pocket, but well worth it, so prepare ahead and/or tell Jess your budget.

Here's the coaches we had and what I gleaned from them:
James Marshall - The man with presence. Lessons. Pressure.
Liam McRae - Relentless. Challenges social assumptions. Touch.
Jess Daly - Works style magic. Key feminine distinctions.
Shae Matthews - Meta-physician. Helps you find your reality under reality.
Tony Solo - Enthusiasm. Wingman. Insanely social.
Guest coach: Sasha Daygame - Challenges ego/excuses. Funny, no bullshit.

Our group was a diverse mixture of people from around the world, and of assorted careers and backgrounds. We comprised of 1 Taiwanese, 1 Brazilian, 1 Austrian, 3 Americans, 2 Kiwis, and 1 Dane. Our group had members ranging from mid twenties to fourties. One pivotal thing I learned on Eurotour was to disregard expectations. This includes towards my own group. You don't know who's going to show up, what they're like or what brought them there. All you know is that they are there, on the same path and this tour can help create some friendships that can help inspire you on the tour and off.

Eurotour is a huge experience, although it only lasts 10 days. And since I am only living my life, I can only speak from what happened to me.

Here are some notable experiences that happened to me while on tour:

In Prague, the first great thing was an "awareness" experience. In the mornings we do body work/meditation. And James helps work with everyone through a process that bring you into your physical sensations, the present moment and everything around you. It's a feeling of being inside and outside your body at the same time and extremely centering, calming and powerful. That same night I had a enlightening experience with a social butterfly. Also in Prague, you get your assumptions proven wrong. Meaning, if you walk up to an attractive girl what do you think will happen? Now, if I had that all figured out already and thought magic would happen, I wouldn't be there. But you get to see, really see, that if you go "uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh" for a long time, some women will stick around to see what you have to say, and you can light up their smile by saying something as simple as "I think you're beautiful." I also got a number after I stared at a girls boob's during the entire interaction. You're assumptions about what can/will happen get destroyed.

One thing that blew my mind was the realization that the vast majority of men don't approach women. Or they only do it drunk or through the safety of their social circle. On my last night in Prague, I saw these two young, insanely hot girls walking out of the club and heading down the street. I ran after them and approached. (Another thing you learn is to drop the "something has to happen for the this interaction to be valid/a success" mentality.) They told me they had a shitty night because nobody talked to them. I think this needs reiterating. They got dolled up, makeup, dress, hair, everything, looking super hot. And not a single guy talked to them. WTF?!

In Budapest, the best place we went to was Szimpla Kert. That's where most of my learning happened in Budapest. The first night there, I began to get stressed out by social pressure then Liam showed me the meditation walk. Basically, you walk very, very slowly around the club, letting go, clearing your head and taking in everything. Doing this, I started to notice the energy of the club, how people were acting/reacting and became aware of other's interest in me. This became a very powerful tool for me. By this time during the tour, I was getting numbers, winging regularly and beginning to have solid interactions. Now, it was the same night or another night where my bullshit/pressure was getting to me, and Shae was near by and could see this. We started talking and he encouraged me to explore my story. What I know, what I've done, what I'm passionate about, how I've helped others, what inspires me, etc. This helped me see me more as I truly am rather than how I felt in that moment. Using this more free, empowered and connected state, I transitioned to this voluptuous, goddess of a woman as she walked by. After stopping her and letting her know exactly how sexy I found her, we sat in silence for a moment until I led her to a quieter area. We only needed our instant attraction to each other to start kissing and making out.

Belgrade. Belgrade is as close to paradise as you can get and was full of spontaneous adventure for me. On the first night there, 2 fellow students noticed a girl's interest in me, I went over, had a fun interaction and got her number. The next few days passed all too soon. It's a great feeling having "quality problems" such as trying to manage dates and approaching, with a full sense of being natural, the most beautiful women you've ever seen. In Belgrade, I was also nicknamed "Makeout Master" for making out with a number of women I met within minutes. For the first time in my life, I brought a girl home (with some help from Liam) rather than it being the other way around. It's odd but it makes me proud. And although they left shortly after, it was still a massive success in my eyes. Another amazing experience I had in Belgrade was approaching this sexy, classy women and exploring a castle with her. We ducked around to a hidden area and made out. She even told me later that I made her feel like a queen. Stuff like that makes you feel incredible. Belgrade ended with meeting back up with a thin, 25 year old, tight bodied brunette I made out with a few days before (that I accidentally elbowed in the mouth...you can "fuck up" and have stuff still go wildly good), heading to my apartment and giving each other an amazing sexual experience.

I can only speak for my experience at Eurotour but it also made me feel proud to see my friends and fellow students come into their own, getting over their and approach with passion/curiosity, dropping any act they thought they had to do and get amazing experiences of their own.

Eurotour was full of massive ups and downs and with that massive risks, opportunities and experiences. It was the place that I felt alive and truly creative in my life for the first time.

Here my overall key takeaways:
Mindset
Enthusiasm
Awareness
Natural expression
Intent
Pressure
Presence
Leading

Was Eurotour expensive? Fuck yes.

Was it worth it? I have never invested so thoroughly in something in my life and nothing has given me so much back. During Eurotour you will change, if you choose to. After Eurotour, your life can change, if you want it to. It is something I can call to to inspire me, providing me with knowledge of what's out there and what is possible for me and my life. And is something I am actively integrating into my "normal" life as we speak.

I'll leave you with this quote from the movie The Adjustment Bureau which drives the whole thing home:
"Most people live life on the path we set for them, too afraid to explore any other. But once in a while people like you come along who knock down all the obstacles we put in your way. People who realize freewill is a gift that you'll never know how to use until you fight for it. I think that's the chairman's real plan. That maybe one day, we won't write the plan, you will."