Lots of our women are acting more masculine.... at the same time, men are acting more feminine.
There is this feminization of men in our culture and a lot of it has to do with – more and more we’re bogged down and controlled by our ego.
- Swinggcat
There are no forever set in stone social rules we can say we have to live by. There are just the expectations that society has at this point of time, within cultures and in different situations. But we don't need to follow them if they aren't beneficial or necessarily healthy.
- Alan Roger Currie
The worst people in the world power- or seduction-wise are those who really try to overtly control everything around them and the people around them because it just stirs up a lot of resentment. People hate you. You look ugly.
- Robert Greene
We want to sort of reserve the element of sex and love as if it's this romantic little corner of the world where all of our nicest instincts come out, and yet again I believe that seduction involves kind of a dark side of our personality.
- Robert Greene
The Self is Always Coming Through.
- Tyler/TD (Owen Cook)
In life, we are born innocent and pure, beautiful and honest, and in a state of oneness with each moment.
As we develop, however, our caregivers and others load us with baggage.
Some of us keep accumulating more and more baggage until we become burdened by all the weight, trapped in beliefs and behaviors that keep us stuck.
But the true purpose of life is to divest yourself of that baggage and become light and pure again.
People spend their lives searching for freedom. That is true freedom.
- Neil Strauss (Style)
Struggling to communicate or to have depth is due to a lack of life experience.
- Adam Lyons (AFC Adam)
Most guys who define themselves as "too nice" only behave nicely because they want everybody to like them and don’t want anyone to think badly of them. Don’t mistake being fearful and weak-minded for being nice.
- Neil Strauss (Style)
Looking to others to make you feel significant creates emptiness and a formula for disaster.
- David Tian (Asian Rake)
A large part of attraction is being comfortable with yourself, and happiness really does come from within. No matter what you read hereon in, no other person on this planet can ever make you as happy as you can make yourself, and as long as you are prepared to accept yourself for who you are, other people will too.
- Adam Lyons (AFC Adam)
Be selfish, do the things you know in your heart are what you should be doing.
- Jason Capital
If you're afraid to approach a woman, it's because somewhere in you, you are more invested in her opinion of you than you are in yourself.
- Mark Manson
Drop the need to prove anything to anybody including yourself.
- Mark Manson
Figure out who you are and your interests in order to avoid date competing like everyone else.
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You Need to Get the Spiritual Side of Yourself Handled to Attract Women.
- Tyler/TD (Owen Cook)
Approach anxiety is something everyone new to game has to deal with. And it’s necessary. After all, if you don’t deal with that discomfort, you are never going to get better with women.
- Adam Lyons (AFC Adam)
Fun isn’t something you have to try for anymore. It’s just something you are.
- Jason Capital
I had to go through this because men never ask for help. And they never take a good, hard look at themselves to figure out what's broken, what's not effective, what's not working.
- Neil Strauss (Style)
It's easy to destroy something, cut it down, or not do it or make an excuse not to do it.
That's why most people shit talk when you actually try to do something but to create something it's very difficult.
At a certain point, you have to recognize 'Can I actually be happy if I don't do the things that I want to do.' and if you can't... then you just got to go for it.
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If you believe women are playing games, you're going to try to 'out-game' a woman who's not actually playing games with you.
- Mark Manson