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If you look at Mehow's method (I've been reading his ebook. I like it, although I think it's a very by-the-numbers thing. Good for people just getting started, maybe the best "second read" after you read MM. In a way, his book has the opposite problem David D's stuff does: David has perhaps too much theory. Mehow has perhaps too little - he throws a few examples at you, and moves on)

Ug. I got sidetracked. Anyway, if you look at his model, you'll see that it's not like he advocates stopping "attraction" when you get into "comfort."

This is a key concept, which he does a good job of demonstrating:

"Attraction" (the phase) is just the first 3-5 minutes when you SPARK attraction, enough to allow you to get to "Comfort" the phase.

But "Comfort" (the phase) isn't about making her comfortable - it's about amplifying the attraction while making her more comfortable being compliant with your wishes. SHe will get more comfortable with you during this phase, but that's NOT the point.

"Comfort" in the mehow model, is much more complicated than just making her comfortable with you. This was a real eye-opener for me, and quite helpful.