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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful
"Pseudo-science meets hippy talk...but hey, it works."
Overall rating
8.9
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
8.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Value for Money
8.0
Reviewed by Happy Girlfriend
October 25, 2010
October 25, 2010
Ok, so I am 25 and have never orgasmed in my life. With my first few boyfriends, I embellished how great it was with louder-than-normal grunting. Eventually I just came out and told the truth to my partners. As I and they got older, it was clear they weren't inexperienced little boys anymore.
Anyway, I had come to the point where I had accepted that there was something wrong with me: as much as I loved sex (and masturbation) I could not climax.
My most recent boyfriend was quite determined to prove me wrong. Well thanks to his perseverance (or stubbornness...not sure which) and Steve P.'s DVDs, he did. I experienced things I had never felt before.
Of course, he didn't bother to tell me that he'd been studying these DVDs and what his goal was but the bedsheet was pretty soaked by the end of it, and I was freaked out because I had no idea what had just happened. He was ecstatic of course. It was like his team won the Superbowl, and he had just made the winning goal.
Yes, trusting your parter is key. A lot of the video is about establishing that physical trust via massage. For me personally, it's hard to relax and "let go." I finally was able to with his cooing and massaging. It would be impossible to do that with a stranger. So I think it's safe to say that, in general, this is for couples.
In summary:
- Yes, it's for couples.
- Yes, it can make previously unorgasmic women orgasm.
- Yes, the man knows what he is talking about.
- No, it isn't traditional tantra.
- No, there isn't much spirituality involved. He simply makes the connection between physical trust and sexual release.
- No, the DVDs are not worth that kind of money. He should really consider lowering the price. He makes women orgasm for a living. For gods sake, how hard is his life?
That being said, there are a few things that I'm skeptical about and I feel discredited the otherwise credible DVD.
1. Sketchy blond girls massaging the woman on the table...necessary or an unabashed appeal to male sexuality?
2. I highly doubt that massage makes your breasts larger. They may swell slightly, as they do before you period or while you're ovulating, but it isn't any more permanent than an engorged vulva.
3. The title of course
Anyway, I had come to the point where I had accepted that there was something wrong with me: as much as I loved sex (and masturbation) I could not climax.
My most recent boyfriend was quite determined to prove me wrong. Well thanks to his perseverance (or stubbornness...not sure which) and Steve P.'s DVDs, he did. I experienced things I had never felt before.
Of course, he didn't bother to tell me that he'd been studying these DVDs and what his goal was but the bedsheet was pretty soaked by the end of it, and I was freaked out because I had no idea what had just happened. He was ecstatic of course. It was like his team won the Superbowl, and he had just made the winning goal.
Yes, trusting your parter is key. A lot of the video is about establishing that physical trust via massage. For me personally, it's hard to relax and "let go." I finally was able to with his cooing and massaging. It would be impossible to do that with a stranger. So I think it's safe to say that, in general, this is for couples.
In summary:
- Yes, it's for couples.
- Yes, it can make previously unorgasmic women orgasm.
- Yes, the man knows what he is talking about.
- No, it isn't traditional tantra.
- No, there isn't much spirituality involved. He simply makes the connection between physical trust and sexual release.
- No, the DVDs are not worth that kind of money. He should really consider lowering the price. He makes women orgasm for a living. For gods sake, how hard is his life?
That being said, there are a few things that I'm skeptical about and I feel discredited the otherwise credible DVD.
1. Sketchy blond girls massaging the woman on the table...necessary or an unabashed appeal to male sexuality?
2. I highly doubt that massage makes your breasts larger. They may swell slightly, as they do before you period or while you're ovulating, but it isn't any more permanent than an engorged vulva.
3. The title of course
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