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Okay, so I've waited from September until January to write this, because I wanted to be able to give a true statement of how going to Austin for a weekend with Nick would affect my life in the long term. A little background. I'm a 39 year old divorced father of 2, and I live in Sioux Falls, SD. I was in a less than ideal marriage, because for most of my life, I felt as though I didn't have a choice as to what kind of women I had in my life, so I stayed where I thought it was safe. It wasn't. After my divorce, I wanted to find a healthy relationship with an extraordinary woman, and I wanted to be able to enjoy the journey of searching for that person. I wanted to do that by being the most confident and authentic version of myself that I could be. Part of my motivation was for my own happiness, and part of it was to be an example of a confident man for my daughters. I did my homework before deciding to approach Nick, and my reason for choosing to work with him was that I could truly sense that his goals for his students are positive and healthy.

As for the weekend, I really enjoyed it, and feel very fortunate to have met some terrific people. In that, I mean both my fellow students, who are a great group of men, and also Nick and his team of coaches. Everyone involved was intelligent, unique, and brought their own set of insights. The activities we did were eye opening, and the nights out were a lot of fun. I learned a lot about myself, an didn't go home without dancing with and kissing a Texas girl!

After coming home, I had some roadblocks that I actually now see as evidence that Nick's training truly was life changing. You see, I had a couple of bad panic attacks in late October, the second of which landed me in the hospital. A very wise friend of mine told me that the reason for me having this happen was that I had finally realized that I could no longer go through life without showing the real me to the world, and that I was finally strong enough to face that down. I've come to believe that this is true. Since facing that issue, and taking steps to improve my emotional health, I've found that my real personality has truly come out, and Nick's training has had a chance to shine. Nick teaches foundational principles of human connection, and I've found that with these in place, other things fall into place, but without these skills, no amount of style changes, game, or anything else will really allow you to successfully put yourself out there.

So, for results, here's a rundown. I've been able to go through several very successful job interviews at my company that have allowed me to advance in my career, and I know the confidence to do this has a lot to do with my weekend in Austin. As for dating, I've suddenly found myself seemingly able to connect with women who I never dreamed I'd be able to, and that confidence just seems to snowball. As I sit here, I can honestly say that there are at least 8-10 women who want me in their life, and several are actively pursuing me. I've had 2 of them actually offer to have a threesome with me (maybe I should introduce them to each other....). I slept with 2 different women in the same night once. Not at the same time, but I digress! I've currently found a woman that I really like, and have been seeing her, but have found myself noticing women frequently that show signs of interest in me, so I feel able to say that, whenever I do choose to be in a relationship, it will be with a woman that I'm inspired to be with! I can also say that I've done all of this while being honest, and without compromising my integrity. I actually TOLD one of my previous partners about the night I mentioned above, and she then became one of the ones to offer a threesome! What I've found is that authentically connecting with other people, including women, makes you a better and happier person, and that's what I want to share with the world!

So like most others, I was extremely skeptical about doing the boot camp. Especially since I had to travel to the other side of the globe for it. But I took a leap of faith after speaking to Nick on the phone. Nick had asked what my goals were for the boot camp, and what I wanted to achieve. After about an hour on the phone, he promised I would achieve every single goal, one of them being that I would handle this whole getting good with woman once and for all. This guy was either extremely cocky, or extremely good. Turns out it was the later, just so much more than I thought.


Before arriving to the boot camp, I'd had success. with girls. Id had my share of girlfriends and one night stands. However I was always unsure with what i was doing right and wrong. And they were vary rarely with the high quality girls I wanted. Nick had promised he could help me level up. This changed, drastically changed. Over the weekend Nick and his team made it blatantly obvious what I was doing right and wrong. Was it easy? No. Not by a long shot. Nick was brutally honest. I had to loose my ego massively, and man up to his teachings. Between him Christine, they showed me exactly what I was doing wrong. Over and over again until it was so ingrained into my brain that my mistakes couldn't come up again. It was brutal, but so effective. My results during the night and the following weeks proved that.
One of Nicks assistance Christine, ran us through the mill as well, discovering our own inner sexuality. Its hard to put into words just how effective this was. Looking back, I felt like a boy before the camp nervous, and not owning my sexuality. She changed this. Once and for all.


Before the camp I was unsure of myself. i was unsure if I would ever get this handled. I felt like a boy. And i felt I couldn't get, keep, or deserve high quality girls. I can honestly say this has all been turned around. Nick delivered what he said he would, and so much more.Since the camp I've had girls come into my life who before I wouldn't have stood a chance with. However now I know exactly what to do. Im not nervous, there's no anxiety. Everything now seems to flow naturally. Exactly what I wanted.


Its important to understand, this is not a pick up boot camp. If you want to have someone teach you lines, and the fastest way to get a girl into bed using techniques, this is not for you. I wanted to naturally attract woman by being my self. I didn't want to memorize lines and be some creepy guy spitting words written by someone on a pua forum. Nick and the team teach you how to be yourself, but the best possibly version. There are no lines, and no gimmicks. Yes it may be harder, and you have to face your own demons, but its so much more rewarding when you have a beautiful girl in front of you, attracted to the guy you've become, as with what happened to me the following week.
I cant speak highly enough of Nicks assistance. Eric, his assistance coach new his stuff. He was out every night helping us, one night staying to the late hours of the morning to hang out with us and give us pointers. Christine was a super star. I swear she has super powers to uncovering a guys sexuality.The sessions with her were incredible. I cant speak more highly of her.

The follow up fron Nick is just as good. After 2 months I messaged Nick asking if I could call for some help. His reply, "Sure, when are you free?"

In summary, the boot camp is worth every dollar, even considering the flights over to the USA. Consider it an investment in yourself, it will pay off for the rest of your life.

Nicks program is awesome, he never tries to throw too much at you at once. You end up learning everything you need to know by the end of the weekend anyway. The first night is just approaching, I was terrible at approaching, I felt better and better after every approach I made and most were positive interactions that I got from Nicks direct coaching. Every time I would leave an interaction Nick would tell me "and I haven't even taught you how to have a conversation yet" I knew there would even better nights the rest of the weekend. Friday afternoon we practiced conversations with the female instructors. I started off poorly, Nick could see everything I was doing wrong and everything I had always done wrong when talking to girls. After seeing him demonstrate and getting out of my head I realized how easy and enjoyable this could be. I walked away Friday night with this really cute British chicks number. Saturday was the day that everyone looks forward to. Connecting with my center finally made me realize what Nick and the other coaches already knew all along, that you can literally talk and be with any girl. I'm writing this a few weeks out from the program and I can honestly say that my life has changes for the better. My confidence is off the charts and I have a great girl that I spend most of my time with. I recommend this program 110%!

The weekend working with Nick was one I won't soon forget. Months of hard work culminated in a weekend of learning a lot about what makes me feel great, re-learning how to share who I am with people and learning how to experience my feelings with people on new levels. Both days of training were difficult but the whole things has yielded some exciting results. The days just seem more exciting and rewarding then they used to. I know Nick has equipped me with the tools to be successful in this and that if I ever need him, he's a text or a call away. It was a special weekend. Highly recommended.

I think what sets “Sparks of Attraction Live Training” apart from other workshops is that it doesn’t teach you strategies that trick women into liking you. Nick’s approach is to get your most authentic self outside and be a cool bloke that women like. He does that by teaching you what he calls “holding space”, which means getting out of your head and tuning in / expressing your authentic feelings at the moment. The cool thing is that these skills are not only applicable to girls, but to people in general and Nick encourages you to apply them with everybody everyday.

The workshop itself was huge fun and didn’t feel like a workshop at all, but more like a great weekend with friends. There were only two other participants, so it was very personal. During the day we had teaching sessions, in the evening we went out to the bars to practice our newly obtained skills. I learned a ton of things in this workshop and gained so many experiences that now serve me as references. I’m much more confident now, when I to talk to girls and also in general. Also I’ve got a very specific idea now, which areas I still have to work on.

The workshop really changed me and that hasn’t gone unnoticed by my friends and the people around me, either. Since I’m back home again, I’ve been getting plenty of good feedback so I would defenitely recommend this training.

I took Nick’s Fearless program back in January of 2011, and back then it was a very life changing experience. It opened my eyes to a lot of new opportunities and unlocked more potential within me than I could have imagined at the time. So it came as no surprise that, taking the course the second time around, I would be going in knowing most of the material and treating the weekend as a sort of “review”. I could not have been more wrong.

It started with an email to the five lucky people taking the course containing Mr. Sparks’ new book, which in my opinion ought to replace that Bible (or whatever other book your worship) on your shelf. It contains within the vast knowledge that Nick has chosen to share, and is an amazingly fun read. Having this in our repertoire allowed Nick to cut off hours of lecture time and replace them with exercises and field time, which made such an enormous difference from the last time I took the course. It really showed not only in the feedback I was able to obtain, but in the one-on-one instruction I was receiving (keep in mind that there were five students!) and in the results I was getting out on the field. Nick and his fellow coaches were literally always on hand to answer questions and provided extremely detailed responses that didn’t simply answer your question: they provoked further thought into the matter and provided an opportunity for deep introspection, especially with issues that truly challenged the people there.

The days were packed with exercises and fun homework assignments which really tested our boundaries (grabbing quick numbers off of strangers in the park, for instance), while the evenings were a social whirlwind, sweeping us from bar to bar as we conquered our fears and found new obstacles to overcome. On Friday, I remember that I went to say hello to a cute girl at the bar while getting a drink, and she ordered Jager Bombs for Nick and I (I had WAY too many free drinks that night).

The program lead by Nick Sparks wasn’t just about the individuals. It was about the very strong bonds that we, as a group, formed throughout the weekend. We weren’t just five guys doing our own thing, we were a powerhouse group to be reckoned with that supported each other and encouraged growth far beyond what we could have done alone. I think that this is probably one of the most important aspects of the program, because what Nick does is truly foster a community that cares deeply about one another s’ growth. Not one person there was “in it for himself”. Not a single man hesitated to help and give their voice when someone was having a problem with socializing. I cannot stress enough how important this is, and it really sets apart Nick’s program from the rest: truly displaying his coaching abilities by knowing when to take a step back and let the students discuss and experiment. Those are the best kinds of teachers.

The way Nick Sparks constructed his new program is not only mind-blowingly effective, it truly exposes how deeply that Nick cares about his students and how utterly devoted he is to seeing us not only improve, but continue to learn new things with every single interaction. I want to emphasize that taking the course a second time really allowed me to work out the kinks in my socializing and hammer everything down. Where before I had a multitude of things to work on and improve, I now only have two. Having Nick and his crew there to focus solely on your performance instead of focusing on lecturing for hours is a difference that cannot be measured. I thought the first time was the best I’ve had… and Nick really went out of his way to prove that the best is yet to come.