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The three day Badboy Workshop in Montreal seems from the perspective as a pretty remarkable event…For the guy after 40 it means something, as we usually assume that any change of behavior or character later in life is much tougher… Anyway, I feel that I do changed (or eliminated) something which was part of me for a long time - lack of confidence or fear of approaching a woman…I knew about this before but actually dealing with that was a complete different story. Now I know how important it is to convey the image of power and confidence (as it cost me a broken marriage and a few long term relationships…) So, the biggest benefit of this workshop was to face these fears directly both by practicing cold approaches afternoons (with Badboy and other co-participants) and “implementing” them in the real life – in a “war zone” of the night clubs…As we were assured that rejection is part of this learning process and will (at the beginning) happen, I really didn’t care about that… And it happened much, much less then I anticipated! Now, when I go the clubs (or approach woman elsewhere) I simply recall this feeling of power and determination from the workshop when I was running from set to set and was opening with any word (yes!) Badboy suggested or pop-in to my mind (for example ping pong…) it proves powerfully that what you say is much less significant then HOW you say it... When you behave like that, with that kind of frame and confidence; the outcome is very predictable (almost assured) : on the second night I get laid with a beautiful and hot (although little shy) Mexican girl in my hotel…And it was a very long night…