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Going to a coaching event you never really know what to expect. Having spoken to Nick on the phone during the intake and selection process, I was impressed by his candor and demeanor, but that really did not prepare me for what I would experience during the live training. What I will say is that this training will change you on a fundamental level IF you are in the right head and heart space for it.

This is not traditional PUA training based on coming up with lines to say or "getting" girls (which, frankly, wasn't what I was looking for). This training is based on human connection and getting the fuck out of your own way (more on this later). I decided on this program because I needed a catalyst. I knew I needed that push to get me going in the right direction. I showed up, Nick delivered.

The first day there while going through conversation drills I got stuck. I froze and had a complete block. Nick ran through some improv material with me, then I took a few steps back. After some deep breaths and shaking it off, I was able to step back in and continue. Later, during the night training, I hit another wall. I was supposed to notice and go talk to 3 people about something interesting in a crowded bar laden area of town. I wasn't able to complete the assignment I was so frozen. After pulling me aside to speak, he then took us into a bar. Pointing out a game in the corner, he had to literally (physically) push me into talking to a group. At that point, I didn't have a choice but to react go with it, but you know what happened? They responded openly and I ended up playing Jenga with a girl in that group. There was the shift I needed.

After the training the next day, we all went out for "infield" training. While at a packed bar, Nick noticed some girls wearing the same t-shirts and suggested one of us go see what that was all about. I was able to walk right up and start a conversation almost completely at ease! I'm pretty sure I spoke to almost every girl in that bar before we left as well as getting offered a phone number! We then left to go to another place with a completely different vibe to it. The groups there were more closed and less open to conversation. We ended up starting a conversation with a group that was looking to go dancing, so we all left together. We then had great conversations and danced until the end of the night.

The next day after training, I struck up conversations with two women at brunch, a few others while waiting in line at the airport. I currently have a date scheduled for Sunday (less than a week later) and have started numerous conversations. I'm catching women glancing at me out of the corner of my eye. It's an amazing feeling.

I cannot say enough about the quality of this program, but as I mentioned before, you need to be in the right head space and heart space to get the most from the training. What I mean by that is that the training is given with the underlying respect and love for women that Nick has. The women in the program are absolutely top notch, intuitive, intelligent and honest and whom I can't say enough good things about. If you're trying to decide whom to train with or you're on the fence about training with Nick, give yourself this gift. You will thank yourself for it.