Love Systems Super Conference 2010 

The seminar on Friday contained lots of new information. It was cool to put a face and personality to all the instructors. I was a little nervous going out the first night with so much new info, but Future said we should just focus on having fun. I was assigned Tenmagnet , Vercetti and Elate as my instructors, all guys I wasn’t familiar with. Tenmagnet started with some demonstrations of different types of approaches. As soon as he showed us how to open, transition and qualify with two sentences, I knew I would be expanding the scope of my game this weekend.

We went to GhostBar, which is a rooftop bar at the Palm with a great view. I was proud of myself for doing lots of approaches. After midnight, we were done with the short sets. I listened to what Tenmagnet and Vercetti had to say between sets. At one point, Elate grabbed me and told me he would wing me if a I opened a set. I spotted a cute 3set who just paid for their drinks. I hooked the set pretty well and I moved them to a quieter area. Long story short: Elate had a SNL with one of the girls! It was a learning experience to watch it all go down. And no surprise really. He had great body language and more importantly was locked-in solidly. Visually, that just looks so money. It’s a part of the game I have overlooked. I ejected at one point and as soon as I did, Vercetti was like...WTF? When I told him my target had changed during the set, which made me feel bad for my original target, he kicked my ass for being a Nice Guy. He was right.

A little later, Elate ejected too. Only he had #closed his girl and he had already sent a text. For the next hour, he shared the text exchange with me as it became more sexual. I continued to open the rest of the night with varied results. At the end of the night, we had a de-brief while at the club. I was actually surprised that the critique was so accurate and specific to each of our sticking points . The instructors were incredibly observant and insightful. Tenmagnet in particular nailed me. He told me things that my friends back home were probably afraid to say.

Saturday moring I saw Tenmagnet with about nine other instructors when I was looking to get breakfast. He was kind enough to ask me to join. What a scene. I was surrounded by all these rock star instructors just doing their thing. These guys had this fun, playful banter amongst themselves. It was infectious. They were all smart and passionate when they spoke. Whatever they said seemed to relate back to women or just being a man in the society we live in. My take away from that breakfast was, these guys were living the lifestyle. They walk the talk. I live in LA, so I’m exposed to alot of different dating science instructors and very few of them have instructors that can teach as well as do it themselves like LS has.

More lectures and break out rooms on Saturday. So much info building up to the big Saturday Night in Vegas. I knew guys were feeling the pressure. I was assigned Mr. M , Calabrese , and a trainer from Sweden. We went to Surrender, which is a sprawling outdoor/indoor club. We had bottle service and our own cabana with a day bed. Awesome. The plan was the same as on Friday: short sets from 10 till midnight. Calabrese was very hands on as an instructor, so I took advantage. He challenged me and I challenged him right back. The result was rapid improvement as the night went on. He knew I could approach well, but could I escalate? Calabrese must have watched me like a hawk. He told me I walked around the club in stalker mode. He wanted me to lighten up and adopt a IAmTheParty or ThePartyIsWhereverIAm frame. I tried it and ran across Mr. M . Mr. M has this really strong frame. His advice was sharp and to the point. He pointed out a 3set and gave me an opener. It worked like a charm. That opener combined with my new ImTheParty frame worked well. Soon, I was laying in a day bed with four cute college girls. I quickly bounced them back to our cabana to meet my group. I thought Calabrese would be impressed, but he just challenged me further. He asked me who was my target was. When I told him I didn’t know, he knew I hit another wall. Plenty of guys can approach, get a set to like him and move them through a club, but without any sexual intention, who cares? I challenged him right back and asked him how to do that. He told me that if I wasn’t getting blown out, I wasn’t getting laid. Guys who get laid get blown out often. He told me he saw me approach. My touching was very gentle and non-threatening. I needed to be more masculine physically. He then strongly grabbed a girl walking by and got up in her face. I expected her to flip out, but she melted like a lil kitty. Point taken. I needed to be more dominant. I practiced with the friend of the Swedish instructor. We had a blast. I was going into sets with Authority-style openers (“You can’t drink here...”) and was being strong physically. That was one thing I noticed about all these instructors. They touched alot. I thought I kinoed or touched alot in set. It was nothing compared to these dudes.

I was much more fun now, taking risks and being dominant. It was late and I wanted to hook up. I saw a cute doe-eyed brunette take off her heels and start to walk. Exactly my type. I got in her path and told her she can’t take off her heels - she looked too hot. She paused for a second before looking up at me and saying, “okay”. She then dropped her shoes, grabbed my arms and stepped into her shoes. She was a little tipsy. I asked her what she was doing now. She said she was finding her friends. I told her to come with me. She linked her arm in mine and we walked to one end of the club and back. No friends in sight. Then, I started to loose it. She gave me opportunities to escalate but...I didn't. I drove her to her hotel. Then....she literally fell asleep in my car! I bored her. I did the one thing Future told us not to do. I could hear him screaming in my head. Sure, she was lil drunk, but conscious enough to fuck. And she wanted to. It was me who stopped. I was being too Nice Guy again. I was just being an escort.

Despite that let down, I improved Saturday nite. I just had to believe my improvement was real to follow through and make it stick. On Sunday morning, I bounced out of bed. I had 3 hours sleep but felt great. I wanted more opportunities. I went for breakfast. A cute black chick saw me in line and came up behind me. I teased her and told her to join me for breakfast. She complied. I ran solid game over breakfast. But, I wussed out when it came to trying to get her up to her room. My sticking point again was belief. I had to believe that I could escalate sexually anywhere.

Waiting by the pool for the seminar to begin, I saw Tenmagnet . He gave me a few tips and framesets that I needed to establish once and for all. Mark V . joined in the conversation and showed me a text exchange he had with a girl who text him while we were chatting. She was asking him to come over and [have sex with] her again soon. Hilarious. Again: ya gotta believe. Everywhere you turned at the SC, at the club or hotel or just hanging out, there was an instructor supporting you. Ugh, I didn’t wanted to leave. Now that I’m back home, I’m no longer gonna just dabble in all this. I’m in 100%. Seeing is believing.