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Covering the basics

This 3 CD set is the “basic” product offering from Badboy Lifestyle, intended to teach the ABC of dating and seduction to beginners.

It is very clear from the start that this will be for newbies only, as the first half of CD1 is all about basic mindset and concepts:

-Girls don’t like nice guys

-Girls like sex as much as guys do

-Girls are not above men

-Girls are emotional, men are logical

-Etc, etc

This part feels like a quick review of the “common knowledge” concepts in dating advice today. This could be useful, but unfortunately Badboy is far from exhaustive and he leaves a lot of important ideas uncovered (see for example David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating ebook for a much more thoroughly expanded view of the basic psychological principles and mindset tips).

”Society Programming”

Another pet peeve of Badboy is “society brainwashing” and how “they” try to keep you controlled and frustrated through advertising, making you believe you need cars, luxury watches, etc, in order to get women.

While he does have a point, he takes it too far by saying things like “this is the brainwashing they must do to avoid economic collapse”, “this is how they keep you frustrated on purpose”, and other statements along the same line.

Of course, the rise of modern advertising happened at the same time as the widespread sexual liberation movement – in the last 30-40 years. While you see 100 times more naked women in ads than your grandfather did, you also have 100 times more opportunities to get laid in today’s society. We are now living in a hook up culture, the likes of which the world has never seen before. If “they” wanted to keep people frustrated, they would be doing a pretty poor job. So let’s take this stuff with a big grain of salt…

Not enough practical tips

Another section of CD1 explain the ideal traits of the desirable man: the importance of looking stylish, having a sense of humor, being unpredictable, etc etc. Unfortunately, you are just advised to get stylish and humorous – good luck getting there, because this product will not tell you how.

The end of CD1 and most of CD2 explain rapport and attraction. Attraction, Badboy points out, is a fleeting feeling, and must therefore be mixed with rapport to create a lasting connection. All the tips on creating rapport and attraction are good but (again) not developed nearly enough.

He suggests talking about emotions not facts, for example, but does not really explain or demonstrate how. He advises to connect through stories but has no tips on how to structure a story, how to use punchlines or hooks, how to create a fun vibe or demonstrate value.

In other words, he consistently tells you the right thing to do, but rarely explains how to actually do it. This is a surprising mistake for someone who has been teaching live bootcamps for as long as Badboy.

A whole CD of missions

CD 3 is all about missions, gradually introduced by level of difficulty. Some guys may feel like they need those, but in my opinion this CD was not really necessary, or should have just been an extra bonus. Do you really need to be told to take it gradually, and do simple conversations first, then harder next week, then harder still next month? Why not, but be aware that this is pretty much all the last CD has to offer.

Too rudimentary overall

Overall this product is too rudimentary – not enough is explained, and the few concepts covered are not developed sufficiently.

We understand that each company must explain seduction 101 to its new students, and they are bound to go over the most common concepts.

However, if you stick to the basics, at least cover them thoroughly, because that’s exactly what total beginners need to “get it”. You can’t tell a newbie “use stories to connect” and expect him to know how to do that.

I have no doubt Badboy is excellent with women – I can feel that. But as a teacher, unfortunately he did not succeed at structuring a great product here.

We would not recommend this audio set, even for those who are new to this. As a beginner you will get more depth in Vin DiCarlo’s The Attraction Code or the Double Your Dating ebook, or (if a more complex, indirect style doesn’t scare you) in Venusian Arts’ “Revelation”.