Attraction Isn't A Choice
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This book is aimed at teaching you how to trigger attraction. It offers an education and understanding of women and attraction in order to help you meet and date the kinds of women you desire.
The title of the book is based on the premise that women don't feel attraction to men because they decide to feel it – it just happens.
Bonuses include:
- How To Change Yourself ebook
- Interviews With Dating Gurus CD (No initial charge, then $19.97 per month)
- Interviews With Dating Gurus Bonus Interview
- Beginner
- Intermediate
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If you have a question or problem, ask us:Table of Contents/ List of Topics Covered:
Chapter 1: Attraction Isn’t A Choice
- An Open Letter From A Lonely, Beautiful Woman To Herself
- Meeting Women Isn’t Magic
- The Power Of Attraction
- Attraction Is Selfish
- Men, Women, And Attraction
- My Concept Of Attraction
- An Exercise To Help You Start Thinking Differently
- My Quick Take On Relationships
- From The Mailbag
- Following Common Social Courtesy Is Bad For Attraction
- Filters And Amplifiers
- Women Use Clues To Generalize
- Do You Get It Or Not?
- From The Mailbag
Chapter 2: Preparing for Change
- You Can Be Successful with Women
- It Doesn’t Work the Way You Think It Does
- Living In an Ideal World
- The Nice Guy’s ‘Real-Self’ is ‘Real Manipulation’
- You Meet Her Persona First
- We Think Women Are Attracted the Same Way We Are
- Elusive Obvious: What They Actually Want Is Already In You
- Remember: It’s OK to Be a Man
- Limiting Beliefs And Change
- Fear of Failure and Not Taking Action
- Fearing Failure on the Approach
- Fearing the Unknown
- Abundance and Scarcity
- Taking Rejection Personally
- Competing With Other Guys
- Infinite Justice
- Fear And The Kiss Test
- The Sex Obligation
- Preparing for Change: Positive Mindsets Bring Improvement
- Lots of Preparation for a Few Key Moments
- You can “Get It”
- Default Behavior vs. Taking Charge
- Speed of Implementation
- Updating Your Pattern for Talking to Attractive Women
- Expecting Instant Gratification
- Natural Variation And Success Patterns
- Avoiding
- Decision Leadership
Chapter 3: The Evolution and Biology of Attraction
- How Attraction Can Be Illogical
- Why Attraction Is Illogical and What Does Attract Women
- Attractive Men
- Let Go of Evolutionary Hang-ups
Chapter 4: The Hidden Languages Of Attraction
- Secret Languages And “The Matrix”
- Finding Hidden Patterns
- Unspoken Languages
- The Universal Language
- The Language of Secret Societies
- The Series of Key Languages and How to Approach Them
- Body Language and Posture
- Innate Body Language
- The Hidden Language of Eye Contact
- Communicating with Tone of Voice
- The Secret Language of Cocky Comedy
- You Can’t Always Spell It Out For Her
- The Tension and Energy of Two Magnets Wrapped by a Rubber Band
- The Secret Language of Sex
- The Secret Language of Flirting and Sexual Chemistry
- The Usual And The Unusual
- The Strength To Be Yourself
- The Hidden Language of Self-Confidence
- You Don’t Have to Agree with Rejection
- Beliefs to Express Through Hidden Languages
Chapter 5: Building Attraction
- Social Proof
- The Value of Social Proof
- Connecting to Social Proof
- Becoming an Addiction
- The Obsession Formula
- Playing Hard to Get
- Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
- Give Her Just a Taste
- Give Her the Gift of Missing You
Chapter 6: Attitude and Composure
- The Attitude
- Why Women Date Bartenders and Other Players
- The Attitude Is Behind the Words
- James Bond Never Whines
- Be the Leader
- Being Focused on your Goals is Attractive
- Do but Don’t Care
- James Bond Doesn’t Get Upset
- Dealing with Tests and Challenges
- James Bond Doesn’t Rush Things
- The Attitude Has Mystery, Tension
- Women in Demand are Demanding
- The Attitude May Sometimes Be a Burden
- Summary of the Attitude
Chapter 7: Most Guys Do Exactly the Wrong Thing When They Date
- Attractive Women
- The Way Of The Wuss
- Why This Pattern Happens the Way It Does
- Why Women Run Once the Submissive “Nice Guy” Appears
- Mistaking Affection for Attraction
- Adapting Wuss Behavior Into Attractive Behavior
Chapter 8: Don’t Bore Her!
- Boring Men Aren’t Attractive
- Why Wusses Bore Women
- Don’t Be Predictable
- Be Different Instead
- To Get From Affection to Attraction, Play Hard To Get
- Avoid Boring Conversation
- So What Do You Say?
- Humor Technique: Fake Drama
- Responding Correctly to Real Drama From a Woman
- Reframe Ass Kissers
- Talk About Sex
- Read Clues
- Be Mysterious
Chapter 9: Cocky Comedy In Detail
- Cocky Comedy
- What Cocky Comedy Communicates
- Why Does Cocky Comedy Attract Women?
- It’s Cocky Balanced With Comedy
- How to Create Cocky Comedy
- Examples Of Cocky Comedy
- My Personal Favorite Cocky Comedy Standards
- Using Cocky Comedy To Beat Tests
- Exercise: Cocky Comedy
- Remember That Cocky Comedy Is Desired When Unacknowledged
- Don’t Cave In and Collapse—Continue Building with Cocky Comedy
- Overdoing It
- Balancing Ball Busting With Regular Conversation
- Flirt From The Very Start
Chapter 10: Frequently Asked Questions
- I Just Got My First Email Address... What Do I Do Now?”
- How Long Should I Wait?
- What Should I Do If She Doesn’t Call Back?
- Should I Take Her Out To Dinner?
- I Have This Girl That's Been A Friend For 47 Years… How Do I Get Her To Feel Attracted To Me?
- How Do I Handle Competition From Other Guys?
- Should I Date More Than One Woman?
- How Do I Come Off As The Most Romantic Guy In The World, But Only Have Chicks Be Interested In Me For Short Term Sex?
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"Definitely a Seduction Classic."
April 09, 2006
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"Excellent Stuff"
March 29, 2006
He explores evolution and how and why women react to certain behavior, exact things to say in certain situations, as well as going into detail on cocky comedy and alpha behavior including voice tone, body language etc. it really gives you a good overview of the whole game. Its easy to read and lighthearted throughout, you could get through it in a weekend easy, but read it multiple times to pick up the more subtle stuff you may not have caught before.
excellent stuff, get it.
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"I'd Recommend this to Newbies"
March 25, 2007
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